Missing in Action

Its been a long time since I've written on my blog. I've been dating myself and learning a great deal about myself in the process. For one I continue to pick men that are just like my father, a habit that I definitely intend to work on breaking. I also learned that when I get in relationships that I succumb to silence, I become a Stepford Wife to an extent, I am so focused on becoming the woman that they want me to be, that I lose myself in the process. Well no more of that. My birthday passed a couple weeks ago and for my new year I have vowed to find my voice and to use it. No more being put down, no more negative self talk, no more. New year, new beginnings. I hope my journey proves to be productive